This is my version of couples counselling. The root of relationship problems stem from 2 things:
our individual traumas, and our lack of understanding around our neurobiology.
Flip your world by seeing people for who they biologically are!
Raise your sons & daughters with how their brain is perceiving, filtering and making sense of the world. The way male and female brains differ matters, because the way we communicate and work with them is affected. This affects how we can parent them, but also allows us a window to see ourselves and our partners. This is GAME CHANGING for relationships.
Completely change up the way you see your relationships & learn how men and women are wired so you can work WITH biology, rather than being frustrated with the same problems on loop and taking everything personally. It's literally pushing sh*t up hill.
Relationships – we’re surrounded by them! Yet we don't even know the basics of working with them. Our adult relationships tend to reflect and mirror to us many of our childhood wounds, as our first ever experience of what it means to be ‘loved’ in a relationship – is our relationship with our parents.
They can be places of great self-discovery and healing – depending on how we use them. Relationships can also be places where all parties involved need to learn and un-learn, as in relation is where two sets of conditioning and childhood wounds come together. The work is in becoming consciously aware of each individuals conditioning, while working together and healing in a relationship.
“I’m crying. I feel so seen and like I understand myself and my partner for the first time”